Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
-The Dalai Lama
In the last six months St. Mary’s Church has seen five significant personnel changes: Michelle Despain resigned because of health, Rhonda Uber, the Interim Administrator, moved to the Diocesan Office and has been followed by Kiffer Card. Our Organist, Ruth (Eldredge) Thomas got married and moved to Maryland. And then Deacon Craig Klein got a job—in Kansas. We have also seen the arrival of a number of new people sitting in our pews on Sunday mornings. We have added three new Twelve-Step support groups in the last three months to our facility schedule. And we are starting our new Community Music Outreach Program. (The Utah Opera will be using the church in March for a performance—opera!) But wait, there’s more! (See the comments about Lent, below.)
That any one of these changes can be seen as normal does not diminish the impact it has on individuals and groups. Change is disruptive. Change is annoying. Change is aggravating. Change reduces our capacity for patience and increases our tendency to react rather than respond.
One of the keys to dealing with change is to be clear about and to maintain one’s values, as an individual and as a group. That is also very Anglican: we worry not so much about the peripheral things but work hard to maintain the central values of our faith. As a congregation we have articulated our common values as the Baptismal Covenant and five affirmations: worship, acceptance, sanctuary, caring, and rootedness. These things guide and justify our decision making and challenge us to maintain our sights on the truly important. Or, as the prayer says,
Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure;… (p.234)I hope you will use one or more of the opportunities for such focus as we move into Lent. Lent is a good time for cobweb-clearing and re-focusing. Watch this page, the parish Web site, and the Sunday announcements for more information.